Feminist Advisory Board for Obama

"When the well's dry, we know the worth of water." --Benjamin Franklin WOMEN NEED TO STRIKE

Wednesday, November 18, 2009

bell hooks on Feminist Revolution

I belong to a feminist book club and we're reading Feminist Theory:  From Margin to Center by bell hooks.  This was written in 1984 and is considered a classic feminist text.  Last night I read the final chapter on Feminist Revolution.

Although I think I read this book 20 years ago as part of my curriculum in feminist psychotherapy, this books feels fresh and relevant to me.  I jumped into her last chapter on Feminist Revolution because I've felt very frustrated by where women's movement is these days.  I've been saying that we have developed into fiefdoms of feminisms, where women are now busy running their own non-profits, holding conferences, writing books, appearing on TV, etc.  This is all good, but it ain't revolution and it isn't going to change the power structure.  OK, this is what I've been saying before jumping into bell hooks' chapter on Feminist Revolution.  These are the conclusions I've come to as a result of living online and spending every day roaming the femisphere to find out what people are doing, who they are, what their thoughts are about women's movement now.

Then I land in language that so speaks to me it is like water to my thirsty throat.  Here is the paragraph that sums up, for me, what is missing in feminist/womanist movement:

"Feminist consciousness-raising has not significantly pushed women in the direction of revolutionary politics.  For the most part, it has not helped women understand capitalism--how it works as a system that exploits female labor and its interconnections with sexist oppression.  It has not urged women to learn about different political systems like socialism or encouraged women to invent and envision new political systems.  It has not attacked materialism and our society's addiction to overconsumption.  It has not shown women how we benefit from the exploitation and oppression of women and men globally or shown us ways to oppose imperialism.  Most importantly, it has not continually confronted women with the understanding that feminist movement to end sexist oppression can be successful only if we are committed to revolution, to the establishment of a new social order."

That's what I'm working on!  It sounds daunting, almost grandiose, to say that feminists/womanists should take this on, and yet that's where my evolving analysis has led me.

And here's another idea from bell hooks that I had to highlight in yellow:

"Women must begin the work of feminist reorganization with the understanding that we have all (irrespective of our race, sex, or class) acted in complicity with the existing oppressive system.  We all need to make a conscious break with the system."

Pretty mindblowing statements...and I think I know what she's talking about...in fact, I think I'm starting to organize around these ideas.

(Here's another link for the book club.)

Monday, November 16, 2009

What's a Radical To Do?


http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FAB4Obama/

I'm studying activism wherever I find it because I'm looking for a way to unite people in a pushback with demands. This pushback, which I'm calling a STRIKE (but is much more), incorporates community-growth, community-building, art, education, and identifying needs locally and globally. I'm working on this with a small group of thinkers in a Yahoo group, and participation is required.

My critique of feminism and progressivism is HEY YOU ALL! CONSOLIDATE! Enough with the fiefdoms of progressivism and everybody having a jolly good time running your own non-profits and conferences! This has become a circus of hype-a-me, get me a cool career, and confusion about what is social networking and what is hardcore organizing. I'm on Twitter and FB solely to organize, and at this moment I'm questioning the intelligence of being on either of these networks: people are here to play and to advertise themselves. Or because they're lonely. Signing petitions and sending money is NOT a movement.

Where are the radicals? Where are the people who think strategically, know how to engage in contentious dialogue without getting their feelings hurt, know how to research, know how to plan and think longterm? I'm looking.

Right now, it seems to me that these people are and always have been in the labor movement. There are some committed, longtime organizers in all movements, including women's movement (Ellie Smeal comes to mind as a longtime, commited feminist organizer and there are others), but overall, uttering the word "strike" sends shivers down the spine of just about anyone except those in the labor movement.

My view: very strategic pushback that hurts the status quo, followed by demands, followed by repeat pushbacks as we build the tent, the consciousness, the solidarity, the support.

All of the education, consciousness-raising, listening tours, etc., have a purpose, but the goal is fuzzy and unfocused. WHAT DO WE WANT? ARE WE WILLING TO DEMAND IT? ARE WE WILLING TO DRAW THE LINE AND HOLD THE LINE?

People don't even want to know what the hell I'm talking about. They want to write a book, have a conference, make money and feel good about themselves. That's not a movement.

So, what's a RADICAL to do???????????

Thursday, November 12, 2009

STRIP STUPAK--HOW TO

Strip Stupak

WHAT YOU'LL NEED

    • mobs of angry women who understand visual/dramatic communication

    • a very tall woman dressed in gazillions of layers of men's clothing, e.g., suit, ties, shirts on shirts on shirts, down to a very PADDED fullbody pink leotard

    • a faux bigger than life-sized pink penis attached to the pink leotard

    • flamingo pink bamboo sticks or other lightweight sticks at least 60 inches, painted hot pink, flamingo pink, fluorescent pink, one per activist...the popular styrofoam noodles (PINK!) can also be effective...


WHAT WILL HAPPEN

    • ritual re-enactment in COMPLETE SILENCE of the following scenario
    • mobs of women march SILENTLY up Capitol steps (or steps of any government building), bring forth STUPAK (the bodydouble wearing the pink, padded leotard under the layers of pre-ripped men's garb)...might also want to write "STUPAK"  in big red lipstick letters on the bodydouble's face

    • slow-motion, highly ritualized ripping of clothing from the STUPAK bodydouble

    • when you get down to the pink leotard layer, slow-mo, ritualized, intense and completely SILENT FLAYING of the bodydouble, using the pink sticks in a ballet-like, Kabuki-esque, choreographed display of rage


RINSE, WASH, REPEAT

Tuesday, November 10, 2009

a short lesson on PTSD

flash
re-assembles
power less ness
left brain down
right brain screaming
nothing = in
nothing = out
words = won't
I = stutter
should scream?
I = don't wanna hear
complete = recapitulation
pop alprazolam 0.05mg
letter opener
rip bills
slash slash
comprehension = none
slash = relief
mute
dumb
cornered
slash

Friday, November 6, 2009

Day After Fort Hood & Reply to Tammy

what's the point?

the point is to rant
to rant is to live
to rant is not to accept the silence
to live is to hammer away at your truth
until it haunts you on a sunny day

hammer until it stares back at you
horrifying blueblack glossy mammoth you can't un-recognize
now you've carved half your life
you've arrived at self

from here on out your job
is to live true to self
so you scream when it hurts
you holler when stupidity smothers
the pain-talkers
the question-askers
you train to be strong in struggle
have a popsicle or sit in the sun or cuddle a kitten
whatever cools your brain out
you get breaks, you don't get release
or redemption
just fuhgeddaboutit...you're in the army now...

when you decide you're a warrior
you're already past the point of individual will
you've already smashed into too much pain to handle
alone
you can't hold it inside yourself quietly ladylike
gentlemanly controlled terror kills
explodes in shootouts, suicides and stage 4 cancers

war and controlled terror got married zeons ago
collective trauma
collective terror
forced into a suppository of deadly lead

my job is to transmit my pain as stubbornly
as flagrantly
as doggedly as I can muster the call to arms
I would forget...might actually forget...
if I did not see abandoned babies on the news
and remember my own lonely, terrorized core

and forgive my personal mother
and forgive my personal father
and rage against a system that made me abandoned
neglected
slapped and beaten
sacrificed
ignored and dismissed
molested and used
belittled and railroaded
refused and refused

nothing left of me
but rage and forgiveness
daily

I will inflict myself on the world
until it understands


MadamaAmbi
November 6, 2009
all rights reserved



"When the well's dry, we know the worth of water." --Benjamin Franklin
WOMEN NEED TO STRIKE
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Sunday, November 1, 2009

Moyers Calls for Reinstatement of the Draft

Wednesday, October 28, 2009

U.S. House Committee on Foreign Affairs

U.S. House Committee on Foreign Affairs

International Violence Against Women: Stories and Solutions

PRAY THE DEVIL BACK TO HELL--Go see this film!

JOIN FEMINIST ADVISORY BOARD FOR OBAMA: your voice is needed now!

16 Things About Me--from Facebook

1. I skipped second grade, along with some other kids. My school district was trying to be progressive/experimental. Have no idea what they concluded. I think it contributed to my already developing sense of being different.

2. A major tragedy blew my childhood life into an endless drama of intense suffering, not only mine, but everybody's. My mother was coping as best as she could, but she couldn't meet the emotional needs of all of her kids, so at around age 10 I decided I didn't have any emotional needs.

3. School saved me. I loved learning. I had teachers who took me aside to tell me that I was gifted or talented; without them, I would not have had any encouragement to grow into the person I am. In high school I studied acting and directing and fell in love with theater; without this I would have imploded.

4. I got married at age 19 and divorced by age 24. Only with therapy and hindsight did I realize that I had been desperate for love and security and attention.

5. I spent many years and lots of bucks studying voice very seriously.

6. I spent a few years writing a novel about my crazy family, had an agent, came close to a contract. Turns out I'm relieved it wasn't published, not for my sake, but for other people in my family.

7. NYC is like a mother to me--I love and hate it. It stamped me with an identity I can never disavow, like being Jewish. My mother was born and raised in the Bronx, and returned to NYC when my parents divorced. She called it "her city."

8. Now that I'm in my 50's, I realize that I had my first major depressive episode around age 13, coincident with moving to a new school district. I toughed it out and nobody noticed.

9. One day I asked my mother to tell me my I.Q. score. I remember it vividly. She said that "they" told her not to tell kids their I.Q. scores! But, she relented a little, and disclosed that I was "near gifted." I have no idea what my score was, but from that day on I equated "near-gifted" with being "near-sighted," which I have been since third grade when I got my first pair of glasses. To me, a kid, it meant smart but not that smart...not exactly gifted, but smart...

10. My parents were not ogres and were trying to be good parents, but they were frequently out-of-control and clueless. I grew up being afraid of my mother's outbursts, vigilant, always not sure when she would hit me in the face and chase me through the house to vent her frustration violently. I know this is related to having chronic pain, depression, chronic fatigue, and have been working on it all of my adult life. I've spent my intelligence and talent on surviving, not thriving.

11. I also have sexual abuse in my history, but that's much harder to talk about.

12. My mother died when she was 54 and I was 28. I will be 55 in a matter of weeks. When I reach 55, I will have outlived my mother, my older sister, and my aunt and uncle who committed suicide in their 30's.

13. Everything I have told you is a cornerstone of my feminist analysis and has made patriarchy visible to me up close and personal. I have spent my entire adult life understanding the relationship between my family's pathologies and the systems that co-created them.

14. My sweetest childhood memories revolve around two black women who worked as maids in my childhood home. They were never too busy for me, very sweet, very playful, seemed to genuinely return the affection. I would not be the person I am without their love.

15. Except for being in constant physical pain, I am happy and peaceful and free.

16. I'm on a mission to heal the world as much as possible before I kick the can.

You are supposed to tag people you want to know when you post your 16 things...plus, don't forget to tag the person who tagged you...

What Does Feminism Mean To Me?

The Rights of Women

Jon Pincus, a civil liberties activist, is a member of Feminist Advisory Board for Obama (Facebook). Yesterday he asked me if FAB would endorse his proposal on Change.org. Here's what I wrote. You can see the full thread of the discussion by clicking here.
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Here's my issue, and it's always my issue vis-a-vis women's rights getting assumed & subsumed under the category of civil liberties. Historically, women have thrown their support behind movements for the rights of other marginalized groups. However, when women put forward proposals demanding rights specifically addressing the lives of women, we are accused of being factional, or, believe it or not, not getting the bigger picture.

Well, sisters, let me just say that although reasonable people may disagree with what the bigger picture is, nobody is gonna tell me that I don't get the big picture. I have been studying these issues far too long to believe that when "everybody's rights" are secure, women's rights will also be secure. I don't see it that way. In fact, I think it's exactly the opposite, but that's the subject of another day.

Take a very recent example to remind you: Lily Ledbetter & Fair Pay. 'Nuff said? So, while I am very glad that Jon has the smarts to reach out to feminists for support of his cause, I'm not getting all goose-pimply excited about this "first date." I've been around this bush (no pun intended!) plenty. Nothing personal, Jon. You seem like a really neat human being & I'm interested in getting to know you!

I happen to have the film Unconstitutional here, on loan from Netflix, and I watched it last night with Jon's request in mind. The film's subtitle is The War on Our Civil Liberties, and examines the very issues Jon is addressing in his Change.org proposal. If you watch the film, you cannot help realize that FISA & The Patriot Act grease the way for government to abrogate the rights of anyone they label as dangerous, not only removing all due process, but also taking deliberate steps to conduct arrests & detainments in places where the Constitution may not even apply, such as Guantanamo. It's appalling.

But, sisters, if you've spent any time studying women's rights, you have been equally appalled and infuriated and in contact with how vulnerable you, a woman, are in this world. You need only to read When Sex Counts by Sherry Colb, a feminist professor of law, to be reminded that you are not as free as you think you are. Colb's book was published in 2007; it's relevant now. Sisters, you do not yet have all of the civil liberties you need in order to be in charge of your sexuality, your babymaking, your right to compete in the marketplace, your right to live without fear.

I'm thinking that in order for a group such as Feminist Advisory Board for Obama to put its energy behind a broad reinstatement of civil liberties, that there has to be language in the proposal addressing, specifically, issues that are still hobbling women. We were left out of the Constitution when it was written; the definition of person was presumed to be male, white & not a pauper. We have been defined by and our rights have been proscribed by a government of white, male, well-off presidents, legislators and judges.

We are making progress. We're seeing more reflection in our government of the true diversity of this country. But I'm not exactly drinking the kool-aid. So, I say to you, Jon, and to all activists who commit their lives to justice & equal opportunity: where is the language about my rights? Show me the language that specifically addresses the rights I, a woman, demand, and I'll take your proposal under consideration.

The OLD FAQ's

What is Feminist Advisory Board (FAB) for Obama?

FAB is a group of grassroots feminists working together to support President Barack Obama, and to make sure that feminists always have a seat at the table. FAB is charged with making women and girls more visible to themselves and to the public. Members of FAB discuss, research, educate ourselves and share our struggles, and out of this process develop an accurate picture of what our needs are. All women and men who consider themselves allies in the movement for the rights of women, minorities and other marginalized groups are welcome to this "think and do" tank!

How did FAB come to exist?

FAB came into existence through the vision of feminist activist MadamaAmbi with the assistance of The Supremes, a.k.a The Original Feminists for Obama on MyBarackObama.com (now Organizing for America). The Supremes created A Powered Woman, outlining a platform for the Democratic Party.

What does FAB do?

FAB is a discussion forum, an action center and a support group. We see ourselves as strengthening existing networks among feminists and womanists and growing new ones. What FAB does will vary based on what is occurring in the news and within the Obama Administration. Ongoing discussions include women veterans, the treatment of women in Afghanistan and the White House Council for Women and Girls. FAB is a new organization; we are looking for people to help define and expand this action/discussion/support space.

What makes FAB different?

The difference between FAB and other groups is "change from the bottom up.” FAB has no formal structure and encourages its members to take on projects that match FAB’s mandate and the passions of its membership. FAB is a safe space for feminists and womanists from all backgrounds and opinions to share new information, ask questions and get support for their activism and projects.

How do I join?

FAB is on Organizing for America and Facebook. To join FAB/OFA go here and click JOIN! To participate in the ongoing discussions, you must be a member of FAB/OFA and sign up to receive emails. You can also join FAB/Facebook.

On Twitter, our hashtag is #FAB, and we are allied with #fem2, #WOC, #rebelleft, #topprog and #p2.

Express your thoughts about class, feminism, gender, race, the Obama Administration and what's going on in your life.

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(thanks to FAB/OFA member Danielle Pritchett for putting together these FAQs)